A Easy Concept To Know About Being Wealthy

Before I give you the sentence that can make you very rich and in order for you to properly grasp its meaning I must explain a few things.

Buying things…

When you buy something what are you doing exactly? You’re swapping a piece of paper or some coins for a product, right? (Excluding all forms of debt)

The product you swap it for must do what, in order for you to want to swap it? It must benefit you in some way. More than the money does. Otherwise you wouldn’t buy it. Every successful product in every market benefits people more than the money it costs. But as well as that, the benefits themselves are needed and/or wanted by people.

Now, to get the money to pay for the product you have to do what? You have to swap something of yours (E.g. Time or effort) that somebody else needs or wants from you, for the money. Okay?

So money is like a token of value which you can exchange for other values. Instead of messing about swapping products with other people’s products (Bartering) and limiting yourself to what you can actually get, you swap your value for money and then buy what the heck you like.

Money only makes the exchange of products easier and more flexible.

Please re-read that last statement. You simply must understand it in order to get the meaning of the sentence that I’m going to tell you shortly.

Money is not a commodity. Not in reality. Some people might say it is but they are fooling themselves. You cannot buy $10 with any less than $10 and you cannot sell $10 for any more than $10. (Not unless you’re a bank and your customers are daft enough to fall for it!) Money only enables the exchange of products. Simple as that. The only real value is in the products themselves. Not in the money.

Think about this. Imagine you have a wallet full of notes. How does it make you feel? Good? Why?... I’ll tell you why. It’s because you know you can gain more values by spending it. It’s not the money itself, it’s the beneficial qualities of the products you can buy with it that makes you feel good.

Money is not a value. Products are. Without products to trade, there would be no need for money.

Imagine being a millionaire (Or a multimillionaire if you’re already one.) What would you have? Big house, snazzy car, properties, a restaurant perhaps, investments…

In other words you’d have a $million worth of products. Mostly products that other people have created. Obviously you’ll want some spending money so some of your money would be liquid and available… but only to spend on more products… if the urgent need arises.

What I’m getting you to see is that real value or wealth is in the products themselves. Money, value, wealth… all come from products.

I hope that is clear.

If you have a job or are self employed then you yourself are the product that you’re selling to your boss or clients. At that moment, you are the only product you are selling. And as there are only 24 hours in a day, you’re extremely limited as to how much money you can make.

You created the product (You) by training. You added value to yourself… and then sold it to the best bidder (Employer or clients). So one way you can make more money is to form a company and train others in what you do to create a bigger value to trade. But you will soon see that there are much better ways to create a bigger value than that…

Anyway, it now follows that in order to create money, wealth and value you must create products. In order to get rich you must create products. In order to retire in 30 years you must create at least one product (E.g. You trained for a job). In order to get rich and retire in 2 – 3 years you must create multiple products.

Whatever your goal in life, you must create a product or products in order to get your goal. And you cannot escape from that fact. If you try to escape it you will always be broke.

Okay, so you realize you must create products to create money and you realize money and wealth comes from products. You might have already known this but I had to start at the beginning so you can easily grasp the meaning of the sentence I’m about to reveal.

There is one more thing you need to understand…

Products are wealth. You know that. But how do you decide which products to create? I mean lots of products that come onto the market flop completely. It’s a bit of a risk isn’t it? No…

The reason why a product flops in the market place is because the creator of the product created it for other people.

Re-read that last sentence please. It is crucial that you get this.

Now isn’t that last sentence a bit different from the usual “Give people what they want…” rubbish? You can make a bit of money giving people what they want, but what about what YOU want. Aren’t YOU more important than everyone else in the world? Of course you are. You are (or should be) the single most important person on this earth… to you that is. You should always look after yourself first before you start helping others.

So it follows… Create things for others first? No. Create things for yourself first. Enrich your own life first…



until tomorrow
Mark

"Relaxing with a Mental Computer" Your 5 minute daily program to Stress management - Wealth Creation Secrets

We all have this favorite expression when it comes to being stressed out, and I wouldn't bother naming all of them since it may also vary in different languages. But when it comes down to it, I think that it is how we work or even relax, for that matter that triggers stress. Ever been stressed even when you're well relaxed and bored? I know I have.

Since Error! Hyperlink reference not valid. is unavoidable in life, it is important to find ways to decrease and prevent stressful incidents and decrease negative reactions to stress. Here are some of the things that can be done by just remembering it, since life is basically a routine to follow like brushing your teeth or eating breakfast. You can do a few of them in a longer span of time, but as they say-- every minute counts.

Managing time

Time management skills can allow you more time with your family and friends and possibly increase your performance and productivity. This will help reduce your stress.

To improve your time management:

· Save time by focusing and concentrating, delegating, and scheduling time for yourself.

· Keep a record of how you spend your time, including work, family, and leisure time.

· Prioritize your time by rating tasks by importance and urgency. Redirect your time to those activities that are important and meaningful to you.


· Manage your commitments by not over- or undercommitting. Don't commit to what is not important to you.

· Deal with procrastination by using a day planner, breaking large projects into smaller ones, and setting short-term deadlines.

· Examine your beliefs to reduce conflict between what you believe and what your life is like.
Build healthy coping strategies

It is important that you identify your coping strategies. One way to do this is by recording the stressful event, your reaction, and how you cope in a stress journal. With this information, you can work to change unhealthy coping strategies into healthy ones-those that help you focus on the positive and what you can change or control in your life.

Lifestyle

Some behaviors and lifestyle choices affect your stress level. They may not cause stress directly, but they can interfere with the ways your body seeks relief from stress. Try to:

· Balance personal, work, and family needs and obligations.

· Have a sense of purpose in life.

· Get enough sleep, since your body recovers from the stresses of the day while you are sleeping.

· Eat a balanced diet for a nutritional defense against stress.

· Get moderate exercise throughout the week.

· Limit your consumption of alcohol.

· Don't smoke.

Social support

Social support is a major factor in how we experience stress. Social support is the positive support you receive from family, friends, and the community. It is the knowledge that you are cared for, loved, esteemed, and valued. More and more research indicates a strong relationship between social support and better mental and physical health.

Changing thinking

When an event triggers negative thoughts, you may experience fear, insecurity, anxiety, depression, rage, guilt, and a sense of worthlessness or powerlessness. These emotions trigger the body's stress, just as an actual threat does. Dealing with your negative thoughts and how you see things can help reduce stress.

· Thought-stopping helps you stop a negative thought to help eliminate stress.
· Disproving irrational thoughts helps you to avoid exaggerating the negative thought, anticipating the worst, and interpreting an event incorrectly.

These are effective wealth secrets that enhance a stronger relationship to a healthy wealth mindset - all to often we get sidetracked into other projects, habit, relationships and veer off that goal.

With patience and practice your GOAL will be achieved !

All the best
Mark

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The 2 Faces of Success - Secrets of Wealth

Hi All,

I've added some YouTube Videos to this site, and I consider both of these Guys to be the very best in thier respective fields. 

Joe Vitale

Dr. Joe Vitale has a communication style that grabs you and sucks you in. His charismatic and hypnotic pull makes him a great communicator and marketer. Current president of Hypnotic Marketing, Inc, a marketing consulting firm, he has been called "the Buddha of the Internet" for his combination of spirituality and marketing acumen.

He was recently featured on the best-selling program, The Secret, teaching people how to have, do, or be anything they want and to achieve their goals in every single area of life.

Joe's incredible story of using the Law of Attraction in his own life is an inspiration to thousands. 30 years ago, he was broke, desperate and living on the street. Through a series of odd "coincidences," he found his inner calling and has gone on to great fame and success. He has shared his knowledge and discoveries through several best-selling audio programs. Joe Vitale has become one of the top copywriters in the world, and one of the most successful, respected marketers in world.
   
Joe Vitale takes complex issues of psychology and makes them easy to understand and apply to your life. Combining real, practical life wisdom with unique insight to truly understand yourself, he gives you tools to open new opportunities and possibilities in your life.

Among some of Joe's clients are Doubleday Books, the American Business Women's Association, Hermann Children's Hospital, PBS Television, the American Red Cross, and many other small and large businesses in many countries..

Robert G Smith

Robert G. Smith is the creator of FasterEFT. He is a Life Coach, a respected leader in the field of personal growth, a popular radio guest and sought after speaker. He is one of America’s leading experts on stress, spirituality and healing.

Robert has reached thousands of people with his positive message about personal power, love and healing with the largest free online healing library available on YouTube with over 150,000 views per month and translated in 12 different languages. He’s travelled all over the world giving public seminars since 2002. Robert has produced over 96 DVDs and continues to ship them worldwide since 2004.

He has trained with some of America’s greatest transformational teachers such as Dr. Richard Bandler, co-developer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Gary Craig, developer of Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and Dr. Larry Nims, developer of Be Set Free Fast (BSFF). He has taken these powerful systems that work, combining, simplifying and amplifying them to create FasterEFT, similarly to what Gary Craig has done with Thought Field Therapy (TFT) with EFT.

Robert is known for his sense of humor, his ability to simplify the complex and his dynamic training style.

Hope you enjoy watching their videos -

All the Best
Mark

Living in Reality to Improve your Personal Life

Reality is about you everywhere you go. When you try to escape reality, you only hinder yourself from growing. Your qualities within are hindered as well, since you will find it hard to develop new skills, new ideas and so on that helps you grow.

In the world, we are surrounded by poverty, crime, poor conditions, war, hate, and so on. The elements of life combine to pull each of us down. It is up to us to defeat these ongoing battles and obstacles that get in our way. The way we do this is to face reality head on.

It is ok to fantasize about good things occasionally. It is not ok to sit all day dreaming about things you will never accomplish. If you have realistic dreams, you will set realistic goals that lead you to success regardless of the condition around you.

How it works:
Each day when you wake, plan to do something different. Plan to try something new. If you live each day eating junk food, plan to eat healthy food for the day. Each day you wake up plan to eat healthier. As you learn new habits, you will see a difference in your health. In addition, if you drink an alcohol beverage in the morning, plan to wait until evening to drink.

You have a wide array of options. In addition, most of us have the right to make our own choices. Make your choices good. Each day you wake up think about the consequences of your decisions to see if it is worth a go. If you see that the consequences will hinder you, take a step back and review your situation further. You can reach for the moon and find new stars by brainstorming your mind.

In addition, you can use helpful tools such as role-playing or self-talk to develop new ideas. The steps you take to open new doors, is the next step to improving your personal life.

If you have children and these kids seem to get you, down. For instance, if the school is calling daily, biting your child for something he/she did, take action now. If you take the steps to eliminate the problem, it will only make your life better.

Are you in a relationship that seems to go nowhere? Step back and review your situation. What can you do to make your relationship better? Is your mate stubborn? Can you do something different to lighten his behaviors? Conduct is a great role model that inspires others to change. In addition, you can open the line of communication. Discuss issues with your mate when the mood is right. Try to avoid arguing. Pay attention to your mate and allow him or her to speak their mind. If you leave the doors to communication open, it will help you and your mate grow.

Do you spend more time at work than you should?
If you have a family, kids included and work a 12 hour shift, you should re-consider your goals. If you are not spending quality time with your family, in time your family will drift apart. If possible, reconsider your career. Is there another job you can take on that gives you the same benefits as your current job? You have many job opportunities available.

You can go online to check out the job sites to look for positions. You have opportunities to work at home nowadays. If you have, writing skills try considering freelance jobs. You have many choices, so spread your wings to find your options.

Sometimes these wealthy secrets don't always appear where you think they should appear, but imagination and intuition will alway pay you dividends if you can follow your heart.

on that note I will see you tomorrow
Mark